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I used to think burnout was just a fancy word for being tired. A bit overwhelmed. Maybe a bit snappy. Something you could fix with a long lie-in and a weekend of Netflix. But then it hit me and I realised I’d completely misunderstood what burnout really was.
Burnout isn’t simply stress that lingers a bit too long. It’s a full-bodied, brain-draining, soul-dulling condition that creeps in slowly and then robs you of motivation, energy, and even joy. And the worst part? Most of us don’t see it coming.
As more people push themselves to breaking point; whether from work, caregiving, digital overload or just trying to hold it all together, it’s become clear we need a new way to talk about recovery. A way that doesn’t just involve a scented candle and a bubble bath.
Let’s be clear: stress is your body’s natural response to pressure. It’s what helps you hit deadlines or pull together dinner with three ingredients. But with stress, there’s still a finish line—you feel the tension, then you recover.
Your internal fuel tank hits empty, and you just keep driving. Symptoms can include:
If you’re stuck in “meh” mode and nothing helps, it’s not just a rough week it could be burnout.
Let’s be clear: stress is your body’s natural response to pressure. It’s what helps you hit deadlines or pull together dinner with three ingredients. But with stress, there’s still a finish line—you feel the tension, then you recover.
Your internal fuel tank hits empty, and you just keep driving. Symptoms can include:
When you hit burnout, people will say, “Take some time off.” And yes, rest is essential. But real recovery takes more than just a weekend in bed.
Here’s the hard truth: burnout recovery isn’t about doing less of everything. It’s about doing more of the right things that actually restore your nervous system and sense of purpose.
And the old self-care clichés? Lovely as they are, they often skim the surface. True recovery is deeper and slower.
Scrolling on your phone in bed isn’t rest. Neither is watching back-to-back series while mentally berating yourself for being unproductive. Real rest involves doing things that calm your system: reading, lying in silence, walking in nature, napping, or meditative journalling. Choose rest that feels restorative, not numbing.
Burnout often comes from giving too much of yourself, to work, to people, to expectations. Recovery starts when you reclaim your time. That might mean turning off email notifications after 6 p.m., saying no without guilt, or creating protected time for yourself, even if it’s just 20 minutes.
When you’re burnt out, even joy feels like effort. But doing small, nourishing things, even if they don’t light you up instantly, can gently nudge your brain out of survival mode. Paint badly. Dance in your kitchen. Bake something you won’t post on Instagram. These little moments rebuild your sense of self.
4. Nourish Your Body Like It’s Healing (Because It Is)
You’re not weak. Your body’s been running on stress hormones for too long. Support it with proper sleep, hydration, and nutrient-rich food—not just comfort snacks and caffeine. Add magnesium-rich greens, healthy fats, and calming herbal teas like chamomile or lemon balm.
5. Shift from Achievement to Alignment
Burnout often comes from pushing towards goals that no longer serve us. In recovery, ask: “What actually matters to me?” You may find you’ve been living by someone else’s version of success. Shifting from external pressure to internal alignment is where real healing begins.
Recovery doesn’t look like bouncing out of bed full of energy. It often looks like sleeping more, crying unexpectedly, or feeling numb before feeling hopeful. It’s messy and slowbut it’s movement in the right direction.
And the new rules of recovery aren’t about doing more, they’re about tuning in. Letting yourself be human. Rebuilding from the inside, on your own timeline.
So if you’re reading this and thinking this might be me, please know you’re not alone. Burnout is widespread, but so is the path to healing. You deserve more than just a quick fix. You deserve deep recovery.
And as believers, we are not left to recover on our own strength. Scripture reminds us that “He gives strength to the weary and increases the power of the weak” (Isaiah 40:29), and that Jesus Himself invites us, “Come to Me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest” (Matthew 11:28). God’s rest is not just physical it is soul-deep. In seasons of burnout, He does not demand more performance; He offers presence. When our strength runs out, His does not. And sometimes the most powerful step in recovery is simply returning to the One who restores our souls.
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